How long to recover after breaking up? How to let the other person contact you after breaking up? The answers are all here

How long to recover after breaking up? How to let the other person contact you after breaking up? The answers are all here

Before breaking up, they are strangers after breaking up. The feeling of being completely different afflicts many lovelorn people. How long to recover after breaking up? How to let the other person contact you after breaking up? Two of the biggest headaches for lovelorn lovers.

First of all, we need to understand one thing, after breaking up to recover and the pursuit of the first time is not the same. In the process of pursuing, as long as the other person does not reject you directly and explicitly, there is a high probability of success. But now is to recover, the reason for breaking up must be that the other side does not want to continue this relationship, some aspects of you have a great opinion, has lost confidence in you, if you go to chase in breaking up, can only consume the other side's patience, at the same time constantly increase the disgust and antipathy to you.

So how long is it appropriate to get back together after a breakup? There is no set time limit for this, but it depends on the situation between you. Try not to contact each other too much before the negative emotions have cleared up. In addition, in the early stage of recovery, to position the relationship between you as ordinary friends, no need to always report their own travel, send good morning and good night every day, etc. After all, the other person is not interested in you at this stage, even a little bored. Too much performance can only show that the other side is very important in your heart, but reduce your sense of value in the other side, resulting in lower attraction, and increasing the difficulty of the compound.

Recovery is to love again, is the need to step by step slowly, anxiety is of no use, and the whole process needs to be given to the other side to accept you again. Don't worry about not contacting each other for two days will forget you, after all, we are people, not only seven seconds of memory fish.

How to let the other person contact you after breaking up? If you want to recover, first of all, you should reflect on the existing problems between you, don't want to use the other person's remaining feelings for you to let the other person back. Recombination, simply put, is a secondary attraction. In order for the other side to contact you actively, you must have the magnetic field energy to attract the other side to actively recombination.

In the past consultation, through Tarot divination, many people can also realize and find out the problem, but the attitude towards the problem is: this is a small problem, and it will not affect anything. It is often these "small problems that you think do not matter" that cause the other person to leave you in the end. A lot of small problems you do not solve, the accumulation of time for a long time, the other side's tolerance and vexation when consumed, he felt tired and no energy to love you to maintain you is when you break up.

Therefore, if you want the other person to contact you actively, you must seriously think about the problems in this relationship, such as what the other person is, what kind of state he is in, what kind of life he wants, what he likes you, what he doesn't like you, how do you give the other person the life he wants, whether your own value is higher than the other person, How can we give the confidence to let each other see the future and hope of this relationship. When you're good with yourself, it only takes a small amount of time for the other person to come to you and get back together in an ongoing relationship.

How long to recover after breaking up? How to let the other person contact you after breaking up? The answer has been analyzed, pay attention to me, do not get lost, you can read and think repeatedly, private messages to me, and explain the specific situation to give you one-on-one diagnosis and advice.

Finally, the magic recombination ceremony is just to create the opportunity to find the right meeting point, so that you have the opportunity to get back together, and then it is up to you to maintain the relationship with your own heart. So I hope all the little cute can grasp their own feelings, can have sweet love.